Love and money are two different things that will never be truly understood.

Some people say money can bring you anything, others say love can give you everything though people have different understandings about the concept; I stand behind the fact that money does really determine who you love.

In the 21st century people are running after their own benefits and what looks brighter for them. However, Love nowadays has turned into some sort of sport or activity where people indulge in only for benefits.

This is all due to the fact that all the wealth will take care of him or her and buy all the expensive cars, and luxury, this hence has determined who one loves especially the female gender who like the good life.

Most women tend to always look ahead and see what is best. There is a large number of women marrying rich men for the sake of their existing children, or expected ones, they are doing this so that the child's future can be bright and not have a poor background like the one she had, keeping in mind that she has to stick with the rich man just for the sake of her children like they always say "Love will grow with time".

Great society relate most people get involved just to create or keep a great society, even though they don't spend on that money but the fact of being known as so and so's wife or husband gives them a form of respect and fame, and most people enjoy it so much that they never want to let go.

But hey, rich men and women wake up, figure out who truly loves you not of who you are today, don't be lied with the names he or she calls you. Cherie, chouchou, darling, sweetheart to mention but a few will not pay the bills.

What do you think if signs were obviously clear about love? I mean you spend time with someone, you pay all the bills together, you do a lot for each other, you laugh together, go places together, they tell you they love you… So it must be love right, not material?

Understanding if someone loves you can be confusing because there is so much going on in the relationship that looks like love but doesn't quite feel like love.

For every great moment spent together, there could be two moments that feel like pain, grief and loneliness. It can be hard to tell if you are being loved when you have so many things to wonder about.

{The author is a regular contributor to IGIHE}

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